Comments on: The Joy of Traveling as a Couple https://www.nomadicmatt.com/travel-blogs/the-joy-of-traveling-as-a-couple/ Travel Better, Cheaper, Longer Wed, 10 Jul 2024 14:14:05 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.3 By: Jo https://www.nomadicmatt.com/travel-blogs/the-joy-of-traveling-as-a-couple/#comment-967717 Wed, 28 Oct 2015 15:11:47 +0000 https://www.nomadicmatt.com/?p=9483#comment-967717 I think it’s totally important to travel together. Like you said, you will get to know the other person so much better and you will also make some great memories. And yes, having a ‘me time’ is important – I think it’s important, even if you’re at home and not traveling.

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By: Anne https://www.nomadicmatt.com/travel-blogs/the-joy-of-traveling-as-a-couple/#comment-882569 Tue, 05 May 2015 19:28:53 +0000 https://www.nomadicmatt.com/?p=9483#comment-882569 My husband and I have just returned from an extended trip around Asia and the only thing we really argued about was some of the travel options i ‘subjected’ him to. He is 6’2 and some of our overnight trains/buses were not appreciated by him at all!!

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By: Jeff & John https://www.nomadicmatt.com/travel-blogs/the-joy-of-traveling-as-a-couple/#comment-802085 Mon, 05 Jan 2015 16:34:21 +0000 https://www.nomadicmatt.com/?p=9483#comment-802085 This inspired us a lot! Can’t wait to read more! We’re a LGBT couple from the Philippines who just started doing our own travel blog! More power! – Jeff & John

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By: Elise https://www.nomadicmatt.com/travel-blogs/the-joy-of-traveling-as-a-couple/#comment-89568 Tue, 05 Apr 2011 21:02:22 +0000 https://www.nomadicmatt.com/?p=9483#comment-89568 In reply to Hana.

Hi Hana,

Thanks for your kind words. We are looking forward to writing more about couples travel for sure! I think that if you have a pretty good, open and honest relationship from the start then when you travel things can really only get better. Being able to explore the world together like you are going to do with your boyfriend will definitely be such an exciting experience. It is also normal to be a little scared about travelling with your partner-even I was and Ant and I had been overseas together before, just not for this long, but in the end, excitement outweighs any other thoughts!

Also, travelling together has allowed us to meet a whole heap of travellers while we have been on the road. I think there is a misconception that couples don’t meet new people. We often have quite a few solo travellers who will often chat to us in bars, hostels and we’ll go out to eat dinner with. We’ve also met other great couples that we still keep in contact with now. If you are the sort of couple who likes to meet new people and make friends then you’ll have no shortage in doing so while you are travelling!

Thanks again for your support!

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By: Hana https://www.nomadicmatt.com/travel-blogs/the-joy-of-traveling-as-a-couple/#comment-89381 Tue, 05 Apr 2011 00:50:28 +0000 https://www.nomadicmatt.com/?p=9483#comment-89381 I’d be very interested in following Elise and Ant’s column, as I am considering traveling with my long term boyfriend of 3.5 years. (It’d be a first time international travel expedition for both of us, so I’m a bit scared at the thought, but also excited.) It was really great and reassuring to hear that travel has made you stronger in your relationship.

The main thing I hear from other people is that it’s nearly impossible to be together 24/7 without nitpicking and fighting about small things; like you said, there has to be some solo time to go off and do your own thing, and to get away from each other for a while. One thing I’m afraid of is not meeting as many people as a couple as you would traveling solo or perhaps with a friend. I worry that you’ll be spending so much time together and being such a “unit” all the time that maybe social opportunities don’t arise as often. Have you two made a lot of new friends on your travels?

I think my favorite line from the article was, “You are that little piece of home to each other that is so good to have around.” So true! It’s great to be immersed in a totally new and foreign experience, but it’s reassuring and surely makes everything more comfortable to have someone loving and familiar around. Great post, can’t wait for more. 🙂

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By: Elise https://www.nomadicmatt.com/travel-blogs/the-joy-of-traveling-as-a-couple/#comment-89339 Mon, 04 Apr 2011 18:47:54 +0000 https://www.nomadicmatt.com/?p=9483#comment-89339 In reply to Emily.

This was our first really long trip together as well. Prior to this we had only done a 6 week trip to India & Nepal about 3 years ago and the odd weekend away. It really is exciting exploring a place together for the first time, but also revisiting places together to. Ant & I had done separate trips to Thailand before we met one another, but going there with each other was just as exciting!

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By: Emily https://www.nomadicmatt.com/travel-blogs/the-joy-of-traveling-as-a-couple/#comment-89309 Mon, 04 Apr 2011 15:16:12 +0000 https://www.nomadicmatt.com/?p=9483#comment-89309 I haven’t done any long-term travel with my husband yet–only five days here and four days there–but I love how travel can bring some spice to a relationship. It’s so exciting to discover a brand new place together. I also agree that some “me” time is necessary–it’s always important, but especially so on long trips. It’s totally normal to want some alone time, but I think some people are afraid to ask.

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By: Anthony https://www.nomadicmatt.com/travel-blogs/the-joy-of-traveling-as-a-couple/#comment-89159 Sun, 03 Apr 2011 19:23:09 +0000 https://www.nomadicmatt.com/?p=9483#comment-89159 It will definitely test your relationship, but it will only make you stronger as a couple. The best part is that you will be sharing all your experiences with him and will be able to reflect on them for many years to come. We can’t wait to bring you more tips and advice on traveling as a couple!

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By: Anthony https://www.nomadicmatt.com/travel-blogs/the-joy-of-traveling-as-a-couple/#comment-89156 Sun, 03 Apr 2011 19:19:45 +0000 https://www.nomadicmatt.com/?p=9483#comment-89156 In reply to Christy.

Christy, we can totally can relate to missing each other. It just seems strange to be apart now and when we do spend a day doing separate things and when we see each other again we have so much to tell on another about our experiences. It now just seems normal for Elise to always be around 24/7 now.

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By: Christy https://www.nomadicmatt.com/travel-blogs/the-joy-of-traveling-as-a-couple/#comment-89013 Sat, 02 Apr 2011 15:47:54 +0000 https://www.nomadicmatt.com/?p=9483#comment-89013 I’m excited to read more of this series!

My partner and I travel together and really wouldn’t have it any other way. People always assume that if you spend 24/7 with someone that you’ll get tired of them (and that can certainly be the case with some people, lol), we find that we miss each other after even a day spent apart.

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